Valerie Bertinelli, 63, has revealed her new relationship following heartbreak from past engagements, making it official with an Instagram selfie captioned with Taylor Swift lyrics: “I’ll drink what you think and I’m high from smokin’ your jokes all damn night.” This comes two years after her divorce from Tom Vitale and four years after the death of her first husband, Eddie Van Halen.

Her new partner is writer Mike Goodnough, also known as the Hoarse Whisperer. Bertinelli sparked speculation earlier this month when she told USA TODAY, “I’ve met someone… I feel so fortunate to have met him.” Goodnough later confirmed the relationship on his Substack, humorously recounting how he asked Bertinelli if the dating rumors were true, to which she replied, “It’s true… You are my partner in life.”